Familien: Det gode og det onde 3/3. – The Family: The good and the evil 3/3.

En kanalisering – A channeling (Dansk – English).

Familien: Det gode og det onde 3/3. – The Family: The good and the evil 3/3.

Familien. ”Det onde og det gode trives allevegne også i familierne. Mor og far er rollemodeller for børnene, ligesom bedsteforældrene var det for de nye forældre. Generation efter generation står I oven på hinandens skuldre. Den dreng der kigger ind i sin fars øjne, kan finde sig selv deri. Den datter der kigger ind i sin mors øjne, kan finde sig selv i hende. Børn bliver og er et spejl af deres forældre. Og stop så lidt? Hvad har det med det onde at gøre? Æblet falder sjældent langt fra stammen. På alle træer er der rådne og bitre æbler. Alt det, børn ser i deres forældre som ondt, indeholder de også selv. Alt det gode de ser, indeholder de ligeledes selv. Nok om det. Børn skal ikke bare gøre som deres forældre gør. De skal vokse fra dem. Kærligheden er en trappe. Forældre står på et trin. Det trin skal børn starte fra og gå op ad trappen. Gør de det onde, går de ned ad trappen. Det er den forkerte vej. Forstå at forældrene holder spejlet op foran børnene. Deri kan de se meget af sig selv, hvis de har øjne at se med og øre at høre med. Desværre er det, de færreste mennesker, der har øjne at se med og øre at høre med. De bliver stående på samme trappetrin som bedsteforældrene og forældrene, når det gælder kærlighed. I vore dage er det desværre blevet sværere at se sig selv med alle de input fra underlødige medier og omgivelserne, som voksne og børn spejler sig i. Og hvad mener Jeg så med, at I spejler sig i medier og omgivelserne? Svaret er ganske simpelt. Det er enkelt. I lærer flere unoder fra medier og omgivelserne, end I gør fra jeres forældre og bedsteforældre. Lad Mig give jer et eksempel: En dreng nu en ung mand mistede en ven, da han var barn. Det tab erstattede han med en computer. Som voksen hænger han nu på computeren, den sluger al hans fritid. Lad Mig give jer et nyt eksempel: I den vestlige verden har I sat forbrug over kærlighed. Mange ældre sidder alene og forladte tilbage, fordi børnene har travlt med at tjene penge til forbrug og de bruger deres fritid foran medier som Tv og computer. Medier og computere hvor det handler for det meste om vold og nedgørelse af mennesker end om noget opbyggende, der medfører, at I tager jer bedre af jeres næste. Jeres næste er jeres forældre, kone, mand eller børn, jeres venner og naboer og de mennesker I møder overalt. De skal behandles med næstekærlighed og ikke som i en Tv-film, computerspil eller som det I læser om i aviserne. Alt for mange af jer glemme jeres næste. Det taber I alle på, når I går ned ad trappen. Vid så! Jeg har skabt trappen, kærlighedens trappe så I har et mål, noget I kan gå op ad. Det betyder, at I er nød til at forlade noget for at få noget nyt. I det her tilfælde er det nye i jer selv. Bliver I stående på det samme trappetrin som jeres forældre, sker der intet i jeres liv. Jo, I gentager jeres forældres historie med nogle små versioner. Lad Mig give jer et eksempel: Mange mennesker køber hus, bil og rejser i dag. Det samme gør jeres forældre. I ser Tv om aftenen, får børn, som I ser sidst på dagen og i weekenden. Der er intet nyt i det her. I står på samme trappetrin som dem, når vi taler om kærlighed, for I oplever de samme lidelser og sorger som dem. Og hvorfor så det? Svaret er enkelt. Det er simpelt. I har de samme frugter, rådne frugter på træet som dem. Gik I nu op ad trappen, skilte I jer af med de dårlige frugter og fremelskede de sunde og velsmagende frugter på jeres træ. De frugter ville I kunne give videre til jeres børn. Sådan skulle det være, sådan er det ikke – langtfra. Forstå at de dårlige frugter, de onde frugter, er dem, som giver jeres lidelse, sorger og ufred. Hvorfor dyrker I dem? I ved det ikke? Lad Mig svarer jer: Fordi I ikke dyrker kærligheden, I dyrker ikke næstekærligheden. I elsker ikke jer selv eller jeres næste. Gjorde I det, ville I vippe de rådne og bitre frugter ud. I ville smide dem på møddingen i stedet for at dyrke dem. Forstå at det onde. Det som I ser i jeres forældre, søskende, venner og bekendte findes inde i jer. Det er ikke uden for jer. Lad Mig også sige: Der finde undtagelser for reglen. Som hovedregel findes alt det, I ser i spejlet inde i jer selv. Vil I det gode, må I skille jer af med de rådne og bitre frugter. Gør I det, vil I kunne gå op ad trappen. Den trappe der hedder kærlighed. Forstå at kærlighed vokser. Egoisme trækker sig sammen. Den har nok i sig selv. Den sørger ikke for forældre, venner eller bekendte. Kærlighed er det gode. Egoisme er det onde, hvis det bliver brugt selvisk. Lidt egenkærlighed er godt, for meget fører til lidelse og sorger. Dyrk næstekærligheden. Det er Mit råd til dig. Det er Min lov. Stå ikke på skuldrene af dine forældre. Forlad dem og gå op ad trappen. Det er meningen med livet. Det liv du finder indvendig. Alt håb er ikke ude, hvis du leder indvendig, når du kigger i spejlet. Når du kun ser kærlighed i spejlet, har du nået meget. Kærlighed er målet, ikke huse, biler og rejser. Skeln mellem det onde og det gode i dig selv. Find det ikke i de andre, dine forældre, men i dig selv først. Det er Mit råd. Det er Min lov, hvis du øre at høre med og øjne at se med. Kærligheden er Min lov, ikke egoismen. Den er din egen lov. ” En kanalisering af Julien C. H. Andersen. Foto Pixabay. ----- The family. "Evil and good thrive everywhere, even in families. Mother and father are role models for the children, just as the grandparents were for the new parents. Generation after generation you stand on each other's shoulders.

The boy who looks into his father's eyes can find himself there. The daughter who looks into her mother's eyes can find herself in her. Children become and are a mirror of their parents.

And stop for a bit?

What does that have to do with evil?

The apple rarely falls far from the tree. On all trees there are rotten and bitter apples. Everything that children see in their parents as evil, they also contain themselves. All the good they see; they also contain themselves. Enough about that.

Children should not just do what their parents do. They must outgrow them. Love is a staircase. Parents stand on a step. Children must start from that step and go up the stairs. If they do evil, they go down the stairs. This is the wrong way.

Understand that the parents hold up the mirror in front of the children. There they can see a lot of themselves if they have eyes to see and ears to hear. Unfortunately, very few people have eyes to see and ears to hear. They remain on the same level as their grandparents and parents when it comes to love. Nowadays, it has unfortunately become more difficult to see oneself with all the input from inferior media and the surroundings in which adults and children are reflected.

And what do I mean by you reflecting in the media and the surroundings?

The answer is quite simple. It's simple. You learn more things from the media and the environment than you do from your parents and grandparents.

Let Me give you an example: A boy now a young man lost a friend when he was a child. He replaced that loss with a computer. As an adult, he is now addicted to the computer, it consumes all his free time.

Let Me give you a new example: In the Western world, you have put consumption above love. Many elderly people are left alone and abandoned because the children are busy earning money for consumption and they spend their free time in front of media such as TV and computers. Media and computers where it's mostly about violence and denigration of people rather than something constructive that means you take better care of your neighbour. Your neighbours are your parents, wife, husband or children, your friends and neighbours and the people you meet everywhere. They must be treated with charity and not like in a TV movie, computer game or like what you read about in the newspapers. Too many of you forget your neighbour. You all lose that when you go down the stairs.

So, know! I have created the stairs, the stairs of love so that you have a goal, something you can climb. It means that you have to leave something in order to get something new. In this case, the new is in yourselves. If you stay on the same step as your parents, nothing will happen in your life. Yes, you are repeating your parents' story with some small versions.

Let Me give you an example: Many people buy houses, cars and travel today. So do your parents. You watch TV in the evening, have children that you see at the end of the day and at the weekend. There is nothing new in this. You are on the same level as them when we talk about love, because you experience the same sufferings and sorrows as them.

And why then?

The answer is simple. It is simple. You have the same fruits, rotten fruits on the tree as them. If you now went up the stairs, you got rid of the bad fruits and loved the healthy and tasty fruits on your tree. You could pass those fruits on to your children. That's how it should be, that's not how it is - far from it.

Understand that the bad fruits, the evil fruits, are the ones that give you suffering, sorrows and strife. Why do you grow them?

You don't know?

Let Me answer you: Because you do not cultivate love, you do not cultivate charity. You do not love yourselves or your neighbours. If you did, you would throw out the rotten and bitter fruits. You would throw them on the muck instead of growing them.

Understand that evil. What you see in your parents, siblings, friends and acquaintances is inside you. It is not beyond you.

Let Me also say: There are exceptions to the rule. As a general rule, everything you see in the mirror is found within yourself. If you want the good, you must get rid of the rotten and bitter fruits. If you do, you will be able to go up the stairs. The staircase called love.

Understand that love grows. Egoism contracts. It has enough in itself. It does not provide for parents, friends or acquaintances. Love is the good. Selfishness is evil if used selfishly. A little self-love is good, too much leads to suffering and sorrows. Cultivate charity. That is My advice to you. It is My law. Don't stand on the shoulders of your parents. Leave them and go up the stairs. That's the meaning of life. The life you find inside. All hope is not lost if you look within when you look in the mirror. When you only see love in the mirror, you have achieved a lot. Love is the goal, not houses, cars and trips. Distinguish between the evil and the good in yourself. Find it not in others, your parents, but in yourself first. That is My advice. It is My law if you have ears to hear and eyes to see.

Love is My law, not selfishness. It is your own law.”

A Channeling of Julien C. H. Andersen. Photo Pixabay.