Venner - Friends

Venner – Friends (Dansk – English). Venner. Del 1. ”Lyt! Vi skal tale om venner. Vi har talt nok om sjælevenner, og nu skal vi tale om venskab. Ikke at venskab er let. I har alle noget i bagagen, og det skygger for jeres hjerter, og for mange lukker det hjertet og giver en anden dagsorden end den, I tror, at I har.   Lad Mig give jer et eksempel: Venner igennem mange år tror, at de kender hinanden. Det gør I også. De fleste af jer kender glasuren, overfladen på jeres venner ligesom I kun ser på overfladen af en kage. Det er først, når I har smagt på kagen, at I kender smagen på kagen. På samme måde er det med venner, det er først, når I har smagt på jeres venner, jeres venskab, at I kan sige, at I kender jeres venner.  Og lyt nu! Under glasuren, under al glamouren er der en andet person gemt, end den vedkommende giver sig ud for at være.   Lad Mig give jer et nyt eksempel: En mand kendt at Mig, havde en søn, en datter og en kone, som han elskede højt. Men konen havde ikke samme kærlighed for manden, som han havde for hende. Han elskede hende af hjertet, hun elskede ham for pengene. Og da så ulykkerne væltede ned over familien, stod mandens sig bedst.   Og hvorfor så det?  Svaret er enkelt. Det er simpelt. Manden elskede sin kone med hjertet, da hun fik cancer, mistede sin skønhed og blev svag, hvor hun før, havde været stærk. I alt støttede han hende, var hendes ven, støtte og fortrolige.   Hun blev rask, fik sin skønhed og styrke igen. Og så skete det, at manden mistede hele sin formue. Den kone der skulle have været mandens støtte, fortrolige og ven, viste sig nu, at være det modsatte.  Og hvordan det?  Svaret er enkelt. Det er simpelt. Da mandens penge forsvandt, forsvandt kvindens kærlighed også.  Lyt! Penge er ikke kærlighed. Venskab handler ikke om penge. Venskab handler om kærlighed, loyalitet, moral, etik og alle hjertets dyder. Giver I kål på kærligheden og hjertets dyder i et venskab og erstatter dem med egoisme og begær efter materialistiske ting, vil I ikke være en ven. I vil være en falsk mønt, en parasit der suger næring til sig.  Læg mærke til at Jeg siger ”I”. Det er flertal. Alt for mange venner, er falske venner. Ægte venskab kan ingen af jer købe jer til. For når det brænder, når I behøver jeres sande venner, vil de falske falde fra, og de ægte venner, dem der elsker jer, de vil stå ved jeres side og kæmpe, holde af jer og holde ud.”  En kanalisering af Julien C. H. Andersen.  Foto: Pixabay -

Friends. Part 1. - " We've talked enough about soulmates, and now we're going to talk about friendship. Not that friendship is easy. You all have something in your baggage, and it shadows your hearts, and for many it closes the heart and gives you a different agenda than the one you think you have.  Let me give you an example: Friends of many years think they know each other. So do you. Most of you know the icing, the surface of your friends just as you only see the surface of a cake. It's only when you've tasted the cake that you know the taste of the cake. In the same way, it's with friends, it's only when you've tasted your friends, your friendship, that you can say you know your friends.  Now listen! Under the icing, under all the glamour, there's a different person hidden than the person they pretend to be.  Let Me give you another example: A man known to Me had a son, a daughter and a wife whom he loved dearly. But the wife did not have the same love for the husband as he had for her. He loved her with his heart, she loved him for the money. And when misfortunes befell the family, the husband was the best.  And why was that?  The answer is simple. It is simple. The husband loved his wife with his heart when she got cancer, lost her beauty and became weak, where before she had been strong. In everything he supported her, was her friend, support and confidant.  She got well, regained her beauty and strength. And then it happened that the husband lost all his fortune. The wife who should have been the husband's support, confidant and friend, now turned out to be the opposite.  And how?  The answer is simple. It is simple. When the husband's money disappeared, the woman's love also disappeared.  Listen! Money is not love. Friendship is not about money. Friendship is about love, loyalty, morality, ethics and all the virtues of the heart. If you give up love and the virtues of the heart in a friendship and replace them with selfishness and desire for materialistic things, you will not be a friend. You will be a false coin, a parasite that sucks its nourishment.  Notice that I say “you”. It is plural. Too many friends are false friends. True friendship none of you can buy. Because when it burns, when you need your true friends, the false ones will fall away, and the true friends, the ones who love you, they will stand by your side and fight, love you and endure.”  A channeling of Julien C. H. Andersen Photo: Pixabay